How bad or good is it out there? I read so many negative things about dating here, but I tend to be someone who is positive and hopeful towards love and relationships.
Apologies for the long winded text: I (33f) came to miami last fall for a work project, but I fell in love with life here, and am now considering moving here. My quality of life, passions, and finding a long term partner are most important to me. I know everyone says miami is trash for dating and that the competition is high and people are superficial. but I am curious people’s opinion or positive experiences about finding a spouse/long term relationship here. I am a more traditional woman and want a family and not looking for situationships, but to really build something with someone. I enjoy socializing and am not traditional in the sense of conservative, just in relationship dynamics. For reference I have dated in NYC which they say is horrible for that but I had good experiences there with people. I have a good filter, sense, and intuition about people so I never had crazy or weird experiences with dating apps.
After focusing on my work I want to try dating again. Just to give a picture: I am working on my career, I don’t make a ton of money but enough to be comfortable and I am very passionate, I am well educated, kind and emotionally deep, have a good sense of humor, and not trying to sound conceited but I know I am above average attractive, in shape, and have a good personality. Again not trying to seem like I have an inflated ego– in fact it’s quite the opposite (I could probably work on my self love lol). Just wanted to give a clear picture for any advice that might be given.
Given the circumstances and being over 30 is it crazy to permanently stay in miami because i love it, and with the hopes of finding a partner? Has anyone had success in this in this era? any advice on where to meet quality people?
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